You're The Problem - 30 Real Life Solutions to Stop Destructive Actions and Get Out of Your Own Way If the progress you've sought to make in any one or all areas of your life has hit a plateau, you have to look within yourself to try and see if you're not perhaps your own worst enemy. It's time to take full responsibility for your own destiny and it all starts with realising that the problem is most likely you. You may be looking in the wrong direction...