Xavier When my wife died five years ago, leaving me alone to raise our three young daughters, only my duty to them and my work as a psychiatrist kept me from losing myself in grief. I did my best to be a good father through the darkest days, but now I can see I've been distant and cold. Things need to change. I've pledged to my daughters that I'll start doing better. Be more involved. Show them what a great dad looks like. If that means soccer...