Grief is a club with open membership, but nobody wants to join . Whether we grieve over the death of a loved one, the end of a marriage or long-term relationship, loss of a job, even when a pet dies, grief, like birth and death, is a universal experience. We certainly don't like grieving But if we are to accept the reality of it, we must believe it serves a purpose in our lives, just like love and joy and awe and every good thing we know of this...