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ISBN: 0425191656

ISBN13: 9780425191651

Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men

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Book Overview

In this groundbreaking bestseller, Lundy Bancroft--a counselor who specializes in working with abusive men--uses his knowledge about how abusers think to help women recognize when they are being controlled or devalued, and to find ways to get free of an abusive relationship.

He says he loves you. So...why does he do that?


You've asked yourself this question again and again. Now you have the chance to see inside the minds of angry and controlling men--and change your life. In Why Does He Do That? you will learn about:

- The early warning signs of abuse
- The nature of abusive thinking
- Myths about abusers
- Ten abusive personality types
- The role of drugs and alcohol
- What you can fix, and what you can't
- And how to get out of an abusive relationship safely

"This is without a doubt the most informative and useful book yet written on the subject of abusive men. Women who are armed with the insights found in these pages will be on the road to recovering control of their lives."--Jay G. Silverman, Ph.D., Director, Violence Prevention Programs, Harvard School of Public Health

Customer Reviews

39 customer ratings | 11 reviews

Rated 5 stars
This book is a Godsend

Excellent book, well written, it gives extensive insight and intelligent, yet easily understandable information about the psyche of abusive men. This book helped me leave a horribly, abusive narcissistic man. I was so grateful for this knowledge that I wrote the author and thanked him. All women, and family and friends of these women should read this book and educate themselves about the abuse they are facing. Perhaps, this...

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This book changed my LIFE

I've seen mixed reviews about this book, and it may not be for everyone but it is for me. I have a very angry father (most men in my family fall into this category) and this book shed light on my entire life. Everything made sense. I tell EVERY woman/man/being who deals with toxic men to read this. This is the third copy I'm buying, after giving the first two to friends.

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Wish I had read this years ago

I wish I would have come across this book years ago!! Everyone should read this book before they start dating and especially before getting into a serious relationship. This is one of the most helpful books I have ever read!! I am really glad I took the time to read it! I think every counselor, therapist, police officer and judge should read this. We need everyone to be more knowledgeable about abuse so we as a society can...

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Rated 5 stars
Everyone should read this.

Whether you have experience with abuse yourself or you just want to understand abuse situations, this book is invaluable.

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Rated 5 stars
Life changing

This book literally saved my life. You can't unread it. You're stuck with the knowledge of what your relationship really is. It's such an important read.

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