Where Are the Men?: 712 Places You Haven't Thought to Look

Sick of bars and clubs, anyone? Well, if you would like some interesting suggestions that are very easy to put into action, then this book may be what you're looking for. My problem has always been this "where do I find a man" without scoping out the singles scene. I just don't trust going to bars and clubs 'cause I know what kind of guy visits them and more often than not.....they're dangerous. The book suggests things like establishments near military bases for the soldier type. You're bound to meet your fair share of men in that arena. Coffehouses next to retail stores that males frequent such as computer outlets, motorcycle shops, sporting goods stores. Racetracks, poker clubs. Us women often think we might meet someone at work or in places we normally go. The problem is that men just don't spend time at the local craft store. Men love cars. Why not keep an eye on the newspaper for local gunshows (these places DO HAVE HOT MEN!)auto shows, boat shows, sports tournaments and other places they recreate, hang with their male friends, and purchase products for their computers and other toys. I have tried these things and like I said. The hot men are out there! In all the places YOU would never go. Women. Come on now. If you want the perfect shade of pink lipstick, it don't just show up on your door. You go to Ulta or Sally Beauty supply and get it. If you want that perfect shade of guy, you need to go do what women do best. Go shopping. Trust me, girls. The men in these areas are not expecting you to be there. Surprise them. P.S. After reading half this book, I decided to change careers. I was a florist. Now I'm a bartender. Guess who's dangerous now?

I bought this book after seeing it featured at ManWatchers.com. What a kick! A fun and positive approach to finding men with an amazing number of ideas on where to look. It really got me to think more creatively about places to go. I especially liked the section on Going Out Alone . . . no more sitting at home with nothing to do! I highly recommend this book to anyone who is still wondering where to go to meet men.

I read this book in order to back up some of the research that was needed for my own book. Bobbie's 712 places to meet men really does a thorough job of stimulating the mind. For instance, while I may have simply said to meet people at work, she has come up with a few dozen distinctions in this area. The same goes for her section of the casino gambling meeting place.I think that most of all women will realize that they can meet a man almost anywhere as long as she is sensitive to the situation, is warm and attractive, and makes herself approachable.Add in a little bit of luck and persistence and you'll get your chance at love.If not, as Bobbie writes....you may have to move.

It is worthwhile investing. As a single woman, it gives additional information on where to find suitable men from the different places with similar interests. I find this book helpful, besides as an entertaining manual.