What Really Matters to Me

I found this journal very helpful because it provided insight into how our choices determine our quality of life. The author is very knowledgeable and guides the reader through the analysis of painful circunstances to choices for a more productive life.Anne Jones

Robyn Conley-Weaver literally 'weaves' emotion and words. She inspires the reader by reminding him of his own power and once he recognizes that it is there within, she shows him how to use it to his best advantage. The stories and exercises in this book are magical. They will release you from whatever dark place you may currently find yourself. I highly recommend this book--even if your world is all rose color glass.

Robyn Conley-Weaver's book reminds me of the time I backpacked through Europe just after college. Sure I enjoyed the sights in Paris, Milan and Amsterdam, but if I were really honest with myself, I'd say the most important things I learned on the trip were about myself.WHAT REALLY MATTERS TO ME is both compelling and inspiring. A must read for anyone who has ever striven to be a better person--and it's a bargain compared to the price of a Eurail pass.

Robyn Conley-Weaver allows you to do what would have made my librarian from highschool cringe...write in the margins of the book! What a great idea it was to give the reader the freedom to jot down their thoughts and ideas! In today's fast-paced world it is refreshing to read a book about taking time out to focus on the things that are so easily forgotten in our day to day lives. I found What Really Matters To Me to be straight forward, easy to read and even easier to apply in my life which is over flowing with deadlines and to-do lists.

On the very first page, Robyn Conley-Weaver invites the readers of her latest book, What Really Matters to Me, to write in the margins. This is not a book to be read passively. It is, instead, a personal guide to leading a more enjoyable life by honestly identifying the things which really matter and choosing a path which will give those elements priority in our lives. By using a combination of inspirational stories, quotes, and writing prompts, the author gently leads the reader towards self-discovery. Although the title may invite comparison with Stephen Covey's best-selling First Things First, Conley-Weaver's book does not provide a structured blueprint for planning and organizing your days. Instead, it encourages the reader to use journaling as a tool to give voice to both the dreams and the demons that we may keep hidden to the world, so that we can come to a better understanding of our inner selves and then use that understanding to make choices that bring us greater happiness. Speaking of her own discovery of the power of journaling while she was still a child, Conley-Weaver writes: "Writing gave life to the thoughts I wasn't allowed to speak. Writing made me feel better. Writing kept me from being completely numb."and later, as she grew older, "Writing also helped me lead a simpler life. Through writing down my insights, I could see where I honestly wanted to aim my energies. It helped me settle down and heal so I could evaluate on paper the chaos of my life. "I found I often made decisions for the wrong reasons. My choices were sometimes grounded in fear, sometimes grounded in routine, sometimes grounded in pleasing others rather than myself. By jotting down stresses and strategies, I was able to choose more positive uses of my time - not only to simplify my life, but also to amplify my blessings." What Really Matters to Me is divided into five sections: Acknowledging the Chaos, Accepting Responsibility, Writing Through the pain, Choosing a Simpler Life, and Enjoying the Simpler Life. Each section begins with the author intimately sharing her own, often painful experiences, as well as the experiences of some of her students, as they have made their own journeys. Each section ends with a series of writing prompts, followed by several blank pages for the reader to use the prompts to facilitate their odyssey towards self-discovery. The prompts invite the reader to dig deep: "Start two sentences with "I wish I could stop doing. . ." "If you woke up tomorrow without the stresses of today, what would you do with your day? List the reasons why you believe you can't make that day today." "Write about activities you're involved in that you do not care about and are doing just to please someone else." The blank journaling pages are peppered with inspirational quotes from authors, philosophers, artists and scholars which acknowledge the wisdom of taking power over their own paths. By the end of the book, the reader h