A colleague of mine recently exclaimed, "too many men are just guessing at what fatherhood should be like." She went on to note that, after twenty-five years and eight children, her husband had finally found what it meant to be a 'good father.' "He had a late start," she'd said. Because as a young boy he'd had a distant, unloving relationship with his father. So initially in their marriage, he had been a good provider, but fell short of being a 'good...