Loving others as Jesus has loved us, is different than loving others as we want to be loved. The essence of this new commandment is found in two verses in John. Jesus is speaking, "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. As I have loved you, love one another." (John 15:9, 12).The new commandment focuses our attention on Jesus and how He loved us. This upward look keeps our eyes fixed on Christ and transforms us into His image. "We all, with...