To Understand Each Other / by Paul Tournier ; Translated by John S. Gilmour

This book gave very good advice for couples who don't communicate well. It describes what usually happens to the relationship the longer it continues and why. It is easy and quick to read. It was recommended to me by a counselor.

I keep re-reading this beautiful little book of wisdom about relationships. The author writes in such a gentle way, he inspires the reader to strive for deeper, more meaningful connection with others.

First the bad, yep, I know . . . 1962 Switzerland was a different world from 21st century United States. Tournier, as all of us, was a product of his culture. Therefore some of his words may come across as sexist to those of us who have been born and breed to watch out for such things. Now for the good, for those readers able and willing to lay aside their own cultural biases there is real gold to be found in this extremely short, easy to read, book. Tournier calls for an openness of communication in marriage that is likely to improve the relationship of ANY couple that takes his words to heart. His words stand the test of time.

Excellent tool for self-instruction in relationships between men and women. This book is also an excellent tool for counselors to use in marriage counseling.

In this book by Paul Tournier more than any other you will learn to deal with your fellow man and thusly yourself with greater love and compassion..