The title of the book prefaces enablers getting the "highs" of my drunken husband being charming, likable, center of attention in bars and group settings. Then coming home to me getting the "lows," being mean, low energy, passed out husband, after telling drunken lies to family, friends and strangers. The cause of this continued behavior was later diagnosed as Type 1 Manic Bipolar and Narcissistic Personality Disorder, causing alcohol abuse for...