In our divorce-prone real world, stepfamilies have become almost as common as conventional two-parent families with their biological children. But what rules govern the relationship between stepparent and child? Too often, the adults' needs get met, while the kids' get sidelined. Smooth the way for your children by staying keenly sensitive to their perceptions of family, lack of autonomy, craving for parental approval, and ability to sniff out lies...