The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners

This book is for beginners, it says so in the title. As a book for beginners it is wonderful! I recommend it to anyone who is trying to interest their wife to bdsm. Very non-threatening explinations of bdsm. Lets her know your not a perverted child molester just becouse you might like a spanking. It explains why you might like this, and gives her several reasons why she would like this as well. Even includes a very basic beginning scene script to start you out with.I do recommend if she reads this book, and likes it that you expand by getting another how-to book. This one is less a how-to book, and more a why-do explination.

It was a rainy Friday in October when my wife unwrapped the gift on the table. I had just left our house to visit the "Whisky Brothers" for a wet night of Scotch, cards and cigars...I had my cell phone with me and I kept waiting for the call to return home, it never came...When I returned home Saturday morning, I went straight to bed and she didn't say a word about the book. Saturday night we went to bed, and she still didn't mention the book with one single word, the suspense was killing me...Sunday morning I woke up tied to the bed, it had begun...WOW this book is really GREAT. Thank You Lady Green...

The gentlest introduction to femdom. The introduction even addresses the woman whose husband/lover took a huge risk to give her the book. Gives a fair treatment of the emotional issues facing the woman whose socialization is to be nice, pleasant, and receiving. Excellent discussion of processing emotions afterward. Good for the hopeful sub and for the domina with training wheels.

The Sexually Dominant Woman is custom made for the first time fledgling Fem dom. Written as much for the woman interested in exploring her dominant side as for her submissive partner, it addresses such fundamentals of successful domination as negotiation, safety, setting the mood, ethics, and more in an easily understood , non judgmental manner. From warm up to cool down, (and all the delicious parts in-between), Lady Green makes a comforting and informative guide. It even includes a a sample scene and tips for modifying it to suit an individual couples needs. Slightly more advanced players might do better with "S/M 101" or "Screw the roses, send me the thorns", but for the woman who is just beginning her journey it is a perfect introduction into feminine domination.

This book is honest, open, sincere, and maintains a sense of humor throughout- just like the participant should be in their approach. The book dispells some of the taboos without losing one bit of the sense of fun, play and empowerment that s/m play and loving can have. It is so nice to see the key elements for safe, sane, and consensual fun are identified and de-mystified. A great starting point for any one curious or inquisitive about this aspect of sexual and loving experiences. Also a super help for those shy men with difficulty on how to bring up the subject for their partners.