For many of us, "tough love" is something that is seen as a good thing. No matter if we make a mistake, "fail," are rejected, or just underperform in some way, it's very easy to become our own worst critic. But being tough on ourselves always ensures success, right? I mean, that's why we do it. Wrong! If tough love was a viable tool, then why doesn't it work...especially when applied to Self? Because there...