The Secrets of Seduction: How to Be the Best Lover Your Woman Ever Had

Before reading this book I was hopeless with the ladies. But after learning the secrets of putting on deoderant and shampooing my hair, I am quite the Reverend Dinshaw. I have managed to seduce someone with who is very hot indeed! Not the "Ideal Ida" which Ms Venus describes. But no two women are alike, and I can't hope for such perfection as Ida, but I found someone close. However! I am absconding with her to my mountainous New Mexican retreat, where we will no doubt enjoy romantic rose-petal strewn evenings. And I will not just pull down my pants and show my tool in public, or at least not until the second date. Ha ha. So, in summery, I have to hand it to Brenda Venus for teaching me the ins and outs of having a way with the ladies -- and by the way, I have had many outs before!

But this book for your man. It will teach him just what to do. He WABTS to please you, but you do not come with an instruction manual, THIS book is your instruction manual! Kelly

This book talks about simple things and explains why they work - like why a simple self-introduction is better than stupid pick-up lines.I learned a lot from this book and has been happily married for 3 years, I was horrified to find it has such poor reviews - it works! Thanks Brenda!

If you are not very adept at meeting and attracting women, this is a bible for grooming and conduct. Some of the tips have limited applicability (unless you also run in the author's monied circles), but I cannot say that she is wrong in anything she suggests. From specific hygiene suggestions to dining how-to's, this book covers a lot of ground. My single complaint is the "I am speaking for all women" tone, and the overuse of exclamation marks. This my just be my pet peeve...