The Pocket Idiot's Guide to Wedding Etiquette

This is a pocket edition, so the book is small. Nevertheless, it's jam packed with information. There's all the information everyone needs to look up first--namely, who pays for what, and what the contribution of a divorced parent should be. It also covers the basics about the ceremony itself, including how to decide whether you want a large, formal wedding or a small wedding. Once you know that, you can read on about how to decide how many members will be in your wedding party and who will have what responsibilities. The book also gives advice on pre-wedding parties, such as showers and the bachelor party. Who pays for what? What is custom, and what is considered vulgar? The last chapter even tackles weddings for brides who are marrying for the second time, or for those who want to renew their vows. Altogether, for such a small book, it really answers just about all your questions.