The Men We Long to Be: Beyond Domination to a New Christian Understanding of Manhood

Boyd openly directs this book to white, Christian, heterosexualmales who recognize that there is something missing in the way we arein relationship with people unlike us. Most of his ideas are not original, but he pulls important learnings together in such a way that I recognized myself again and again. He then offers concrete, challenging ways to work on becoming who we were meant to be. In my opinion, much more significant that "Mars and Venus"...ad nauseum. Highly recommended for men seeking meaningful relationships...and for the women -- and men -- who love them.

This book is worth repetitive readings. Theseparateness of men is detailed and is applicableto all races, religions, social, and economic status. Women can also gain great insight byreading Boyd's work. It is a wonderful addition toyour permanent library