The Magic of Conflict: Turning a Life of Work Into a Work of Art
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This set of simple techniques, including meditation, breathing exercises, openness, and play--Aiki--leads gently to a reordered state of mind. From overcoming apathy to understanding how conflict doesn't have to mean contest, Aiki turns mind-body integration principles into powerful tools.
Format:Paperback
Language:English
ISBN:0684854481
ISBN13:9780684854489
Release Date:February 1998
Publisher:Touchstone Books
Length:256 Pages
Weight:1.04 lbs.
Dimensions:0.7" x 7.4" x 9.3"
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An insightful, interesting and useful book!
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 16 years ago
The Magic of Conflict does an excellent job of reframing conflict in way that makes a lot of sense. For example, when discussing the nature of conflict Thomas Crum states: "It's not whether you have conflict in your life. It's what you do with that conflict that makes a difference." There are many other useful concepts in the book. For example, Crum recommends focusing on finding your "Center" and using it to handle situations in life. Crum's definition of "Center" is authenticity. In other words, when we come from our center we are in touch with who we really are. Crum also talks about fear and how to deal with it. He points out that fear is becoming stuck in time and worrying about a possible future occurrence, which may be based on a (real or imagined) past experience. He suggests handling fear by stepping out of the remembrances of the past and return to the present moment. Well thought out and written, this is an insightful, interesting and useful book. The methods this book discusses are easy to understand. They take some time to apply, but are well worth the effort. Overall, a great read! The Re-Discovery of Common Sense: A Guide to: The Lost Art of Critical Thinking
This book can revolutionize your life.
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 17 years ago
Thomas Crum's book is truly a ground-breaking work on the ability to not only look at conflict from a different perspective, but how to change conflict into a true win-win approach, where both people (or parties) are left with power. Written in easy-to-understand prose, it is very much like actually working with Crum himself as he describes how aikido applies to life, and how to change your perspective on creating a winning situation for yourself. My favorite part is when he give the "hara" exercise. It is a truly powerful technique for pre-creating the life that you desire, and having it come to pass. It is also very helpful for those that have fear or worry as they approach a new situation of difficult discussion. I have personally used Crum's techniques in my own life and have seen very conflict-oriented sitations settle down, allowing both people to come to a powerful and winning agreement. This is a true gift of a book - the world would be a better place if it were required reading for all!
Conflict is essential
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 17 years ago
Crum does and excellent job describing universal truths, conflict as an essential means of learning, growing, and relating to others, and provides an introduction to the philosophies of Aikido. I loved this book, and have purchased it for many of my friends, all of whom enjoyed it as well.
Not "fight or flight" but FLOW!
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 22 years ago
Thomas Crum uses his martial arts expertise to offer helpful insights about those situations in which you find yourself in conflict with another person and feel like fighting or running away. He says: "Flow!" In other words remain centered, redirect their energy: deflect, step aside, don't respond in kind, don't try to block. This is a basic concept of Aikido and the "Aiki Way" which he has derived from it. You don't have to be a martial artist to gain from this book. By acknowledging the visceral connection we associate with conflict he gets you much further than many books based strictly on communication theory.
A pivotal guide to redesigning your thoughts and life.
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 26 years ago
If you are ready to turn your life into a work of art, this is the book for you. This book will help give you a new perspective on the term 'conflict.' It helps you understand that conflict is not a negative thing, it just is...and the sooner we learn what options we have to deal with conflict, the happier and fuller our lives can be.
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