I find that we all want to understand what we can do when facing what seems to be at times an onslaught against us mentally and Spiritually. This can be true for those who have dealt with the thought of not being loved, as I did as a young boy. In my situation then as my "birth Father" was never present, so I thought why would God love me? This can be especially true if there were or are negative feelings, actions or thoughts that could prevent us...