When you said, "I do" you married four very different people. You married the person you think they are, the person they think they are, the person they are at this moment, and the person they are becoming. Problems arise when we fall in love with one or two of the four, and when the rest show up (and they will) you can feel as though you were fooled into something that you didn't sign up for. This is the path that, for many people, ends in divorce...
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