The Angry Teenager: Why Teens Get So Angry and How Parents Can Help Them Grow Through It

Keeping a healthy home environment is obviously key but sometimes we need to be refreshed. There are many faces behind the angry teenager. Dr. Carter gives us plenty of case studies with good Christian, value driven measures; one of them should hit your predicament. We must remember, anger is not necessarily a bad thing when used constructively. This book has been very helpful and is easily utilized. He will also assist us in dealing with the problems before they get out of hand. Our teens are sending us a message----we must heed the warning; know that teen depression is on the rise. Most of the chapters compose a description and explanation of the adolescents' actions and thoughts. The author then moves on to a case study where finally it all comes together in corrective measures. We come to realize we react without thought. We need to put ourselves in their shoes and try to understand and find ways to keep negative anger in the family at bay. The teen is seeking independence and should be allowed to learn to make their own decisions and mistakes (to a point); we need to respect that. If we emphasize communication and togetherness the rest will fall into place. We need to be aware that kids learn to imitate from an early age. Dr. Carter sums it up best: "Anger is not as likely to destroy family relations when it is dealt with openly and honestly. When a parent feels upset, the issue should be brought to the discussion table as soon as possible. The teen's own feelings should be acknowledged and accepted as valid. The parent should make decisions on what action will be taken to correct and imbalance situation. The teenager must then be allowed to come to his own conclusions about how he will handle his anger in the future. When parents deal with this touchy emotion effectively, the teenager has a positive role model to follow." Wish you well and blessings Scott