Ben I know why I lost her. I was too serious. I was too practical. I was grounded when I should've been dreaming about forever with Jess. Over time, this wore on her, all her big exciting ideas and all the ways I shut them down. No wonder she handed me my ring back and left town. No wonder she hadn't been back in ten years. No wonder she'd married someone else, leaving me with memories of sunsets at the beach and...