Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man

As a woman known to walk the aisles of bookstores, amused by the endless self-help sex books, I found this book to be utterly refreshing. In my humble opinion, great sex is not found in the pages of the Kama Sutra, in a hundred different sexual positions or in the guidance of former porn stars. But this remarkable book somehow captures the essence of being spectacularly sexual, inherently erotic and madly in love with your partner. I hope that women stop to realize just how important sexuality is to men (and should be to them). If you want to start researching the subject, this book is where you should start. Ian's wife is a LUCKY woman. - Samantha, 43

I picked this book up on a whim and read it cover to cover without putting it down. The author truly "has a handle" on how to please a man. He is straightforward and provides easy to understand instruction. I would recommend this book to anyone. I was amazed at what I learned and just applying a few of the techniques in this book will maximize your and your partner's experience.

I bought this book because other reviews stated that it was well written. I mainly bought it for fun (fairly clean) reading. However, it was incredibly insightful. I honestly didn't think I would learn anything, and thought this might be similar to an article featured in Cosmo Magazine, etc. Much to my surprise, I actually did learn a few things about men, and why they are, the way they are. (Or why their body reacts in certain ways.) Overall, very insightful, clean, well written. If you want a good laugh, an interesting read, and are willing to put down your guard and learn a few things about men you never realized you didn't know, then this is the book for you !!

When I saw that this book would be Ian's next piece I was almost positive that it would be just as good as his first masterpiece, "She Comes First". Lo and behold, I was right. The book follows the same format as its predecessor and offers up lots of valuable information and lots of facts of which I was amazed to discover. There's talk about techniques but it does not go over board and it's written about in a very tasteful manor unlike many other books focusing on the same topics. After being moved by "She Comes First" this book is anything short of being a must read for any woman. There's so much both females and males are inherently expected to know concerning relationships and this book helps move through some of the most common issues and questions one might be faced with in today's complex society. In short this book is an informative and insightful piece of literature that's sure to be helpful in more ways than one.