Meyebela: My Bengali Girlhood

I read the book on a recent business trip and found it beautifully written. It maybe just one instance of a female muslim childhood, but as long as it is truthfully told, there should not be any objections. THe narrative voice is clear and poetic. The characters in this book come across as vivid and complex. Even though some very painful and ugly incidents are described, the book does not try to shock. Rather, there is a sense of humanity and love in the way the stories are relayed...

A very interesting book, not always fun to read and maybe like the first reviewer says not always really well, or at least tightly, written. However, the account of this girlhood was shocking to me. I think now I understand feminism much better then before. And even though I've spent some time in Bangladesh, I now feel like I understand life in Bangladesh much better than before as well. I feel it was extremely worthwhile reading this book. It taught me a lot about how most of the world lives.

Taslima Nasrin?s is a strong competent voice from Bangladesh. She has been in exile ever since her controversial book "Lajja" or "Shame" about Muslim persecution of Hindus in Bangladesh caused a fatwa to be issued against her. Meyebela, My Bengali Girlhood: A Memoir of Growing up Female in a Muslim World is Nasrin?s heart-wrenching account of a desperate childhood in Mymensingh, a relatively small town in Bangladesh.In this memoir (one of two volumes), Nasrin openly questions her religion, Islam, and its discrimination against women. Her sad and depressing childhood was an unfortunate byproduct of a unique combination of cruel elements, one of which was a repressive society where "I was simply supposed to accept?without asking questions?whatever the grownups decided to bestow on me, be it punishment or reward." Taslima was treated like a second-class citizen all throughout and horrifically abused by her uncles. Add to these, Nasrin had very unstable parents?a mother who was driven to religious extremism by a philandering father and a father who was extremely harsh yet very insistent on education. Having had his first two sons fail his "expectations", he pinned all his hopes on young Taslima and her sister, Yasmin. The girls were denied all social interaction (Nasrin?s father had high walls built around the house so the girls could not look beyond it and get distracted) and the books were made to be their only focus.Nasrin?s memoir, which is set against the Bangladesh war for independence, makes some very important points about religion and a girl?s role in an oppressive society. Like a flood of memories though, her memoir seems to shift out of focus occasionally. Towards the end, parts of her statements get to be repetitive.Taslima Nasrin did become a doctor and lived up to her father?s expectations. In that sense, he "won". But eventually Nasrin did manage to find her own voice-- one that continues to speak powerfully on behalf of oppressed women all over the world.Nasrin in her memoir tells us what life truly is like for many girls around the world. It is our duty to listen. It is sad though that we can often do little more than be outraged.