Marlene Dietrich

Ya gotta get this book if you love biographies!! The Stars daughter Maria,, Soo cute an innocent,, but remembes Soo much detail through her childhood with her infamous mom!! A Must read!!!! Lots of Great pics too!!

In this astonishingly honest biography of Marlene Dietrich from birth to age 73, her daughter Maria Riva reveals the truth about her mother as it contrasts with the sometimes embellished stories of the Dietrich legend. She does this with love, a sense of understanding of the needs of this complex woman, and with a surprising humor which is never deprecating. The resulting biography shows Dietrich in an almost heroic light--but not for the actions which have become part of her show-biz mystique. Her real life and her real commitments, many of which are far less celebrated, often prove to be more remarkable than the stories promulgated by the press. Dietrich began keeping diaries and journals at age ten, and her daughter uses these and her personal knowledge to show Dietrich's life in three phases. The first part includes her family background, childhood, acting studies, early career, and decision to pursue a film career in Hollywood, and also incorporates her marriage to Rudolf Sieber (which lasted fifty years) and the birth of her daughter. In Part II, her decision to become an American citizen, help actively with the American war effort, and work tirelessly for the USO in America, Europe, and Africa shows a commitment to helping others that belies her cold, sexy image. In Part III, her postwar career in Las Vegas and on tour, despite her undiagnosed health problems, reveal her dedication to remaining a "goddess" on stage and in the public imagination. Throughout the biography, Riva's honesty, including her awareness of her mother's faults, is always tempered by her respect for Dietrich's integrity and her commitment to entertaining--Dietrich, she says, was "the embodiment of other people's dreams." She details Dietrich's long love affairs with director Josef von Sternberg, with whom she made seven films, with French actor Jean Gabin during the war, and with Yul Brynner in the 1950s, along with shorter relationships with many other show business personalities, generals during the war, and composers and directors. Though Kenneth Tynan once referred to the fact that Dietrich oozed "sex without gender," Riva pays little attention to the interest Dietrich may have had in other women, and to Dietrich's boast that she had slept with three members of the Kennedy clan. Her "inside look" at Dietrich as she grows older and keeps performing despite serious circulatory and cardiac problems, and her ability to share the "secrets" Dietrich used to enhance her image and hide her flaws, make Dietrich-the-Legend come to life. Written in an informal, straightforward style, Riva continues the legend despite her revelations--she just revises it a bit and makes it more realistic. n Mary Whipple

"Marlene Dietrich", a massive, tell-all biography by her daughter, Maria Riva, is a fascinating read about a fascinating subject. Ms. Riva had been writing this book for years, and it was understood by all (including her legendary mother) that it not be published until after her death. A "Mommie Dearest" book? Not really. Riva is in awe of her mother, and does have some affection for her, although it sounds as if Dietrich DARED people to love her. She was a very strong-willed woman, infinitely German in this respect, stubborn, opinionated, and even somewhat delusional. However, well into her seventies, she once peered at herself in her full-length mirror before going onstage, and uttered, "Look at her-isn't she frightening?" The woman had more than a little self-perspective to utter a remark like that. She probably just wouldn't tolerate it coming from someone else. Screen legends are human, even though they may not think so. They are flawed, under pressure to "deliver the goods" and "never grow old", and, in the case of an aging star legendary for her glamorous beauty, "never to become ugly". Miss Dietrich was VERY aware of this, and ultimately trapped by this. But back to the book. It is almost exhaustive in its detail, particularly Ms. Riva's fascination with her mother's self-discipline, scrutinous eye for detail and beauty, and opinions on everything, is fascinating to myself, as well as millions of others. Her disdain for her parents' treatment of "Tami" is well-grounded-they didn't sound like the most sympathetic souls when it came to "personal issues", so who is to say that she is an "ungrateful, self-pitying daughter"? There are millions of parents who AREN'T famous who are insensitive to "personal issues." I think that the critics of this book should realize that ANY book is written with the intention of making money, and that no one would believe a totally whitewashed account of "My wonderful mother". This book could be THE book about being a show-business legend and its effect on everyone involved. Miss Dietrich, in my opinion, was the epitome of "Hollywood glamor" at its divine best. One can see why Madonna, who is a genius at self-perpetuating and publicizing a myth, emulated her for a while. I don't think that she has Dietrich's beauty or class or style, but that's another story. I have been a Dietrich fan since my teens, (I'm in my 40s now), and I am still fascinated by her. I am also a little horrified now, after reading Ms. Riva's book, but I also had to grow up with the fact that screen legends are human, too-even that fascinating, forbidden orchid known as Marlene Dietrich.

I don't know how many times I've read this book, but each time I find something new. No "Mommy Dearest" biography here (though many would argue), it is in fact a surprisingly objective look at the life of an screen idol and her impact on her only child. Maria Riva takes apart the image of Dietrich and scatters the pieces for all to see: the dreamy-eyed daughter of war, the struggling stage actress, the faithful wife and mother, the awestruck protogeé of a tyrannical yet dependant director, the sexual manipulator of men and women, the screen seductress, the box office poison, the war veteran, the Las Vegas star, the alcoholic, the senile shut-in, the legend that lives on after her death... ...but I digress. I find this book to be a bittersweet memoir of a mother who was a star to all and only all-too-human to few. Definitely worth at least one or two read-throughs.