Make Every Girl Want You

I just got divorsed and felt terrible for about half a year (not to long I know:), but very intense). Remarkably I found this book and had enormous pleasure reading and relating to it. The book touches on much deeper concepts and enigmas than even the authors might think. Especially in the area of confidence and sincerety it approximates zen ideals for example. I also think that it strangely correlates to the natural courtship and relationship customs "primitive" societies possess around the world, no matter how barbaric their other habits are. I'll spare the details leaving just my deep appreciation of this work. I'm originally from the Caucasus Mts of Russia, incredibly beautiful area, sort of a Sicily of that region. There is a vast field for a study of how women from different ethnic cultures would react to the CCR approach. I tried it :) and it had a huge success!

Let me just tell you that this book stood out among ALL of the books I read. No other book has been realistic for NICE guys. I KNEW I was having a problem communicating with Women. I don't wnat to be a jerk, or play games. I wasn't raised that way. All of the books have tips for playing on biology and blah blah, dominance, cockiness, leadership... [fluff]! This book laid it out- plain and simple how to COMMUNICATE with women! I never consciously tried to play any women. I just read all the books. Every time I got positive feedback, It related to something I read in this book! And like I said all of my action has been "by accident". I am not trying to scheme. I meet a girl I am attracted to and it's like instant success. They are eating out of my hand. i don't know WHY. I just know this book's ideas are churning in the back of mind. I am listening and the girls are going crazy!

I am over 50. Every thing in this book jibes with what I have painfully learned in 35 years of chasing chicks.It's a simple idea: be the best kind of friend a girl wants, and they'll also want to sleep with you. Hard to believe, but the authors have a concrete, no psycho-babble approach to helping you change your approach and start connecting. This is a simple plan, that works even better when several guys work together. And it's a gas.Remember, tho', nice guys (usually) finish last, and it drives chicks wild. But sometimes, you should finish first, so they can be in control.

the inventors of the ideals in this book remind me of those cool guys in my fraternity who always managed to get laid and remain close friends with multiple women at the same time without other women getting jealous. they basically tell you how to let go of your pride and views when socializing with women b/c women want men who agree with their values. this may seem like lying... but i'm sure you've got other values in common with these women that you haven't touched base with yet, so don't screw it up by disagreeing with something they say at first, or saying something they said was stupid. this point and many others in this book make it a great catch for guys out there who think that only jerks get girls. these guys tell you why it seems like this and then they tell you how to maintain friendships and casual relationships with women without it getting too serious.definitely a lot of good stuff in here that the average guy should know about dating women casually, intimately, and what to say to a girl you've just met.

This book presents contrarian views on courting and meeting women. It takes the pressure out of most any meeting. Usually women travel in packs. Hit on one of them, she will shoot you down just for the simultaneous pleasure of looking like a "good girl" and appearing object of men's desire (not all women obviously). Instead, talk with her and her friends casually, briefly, circulate, and come back and ask her (and her friends) to go to a group event. If they are single, why wouldn't they want to go? This sort of approach levels the dating playing field. You will learn that by giving women what they crave, having patience and relinquishing desire, and building a large network of women who will talk you up to their friends, you can have whatever you like. It is not a totally passive process- you just need to know when the timing is right, and make your move away from a group setting- so you can keep your options open with other gals. I like the thinking that went into this book- "out of the box" and fresh. There are a few things I do not totally agree with- I don't ever think you want to turn into a woman's shrink, but besides that, seems pretty sound. We'll see how it works.