Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry: Why Women Lose When They Give in

As far as I am concerned our socialized culture has failed in trying to convince me that purity and faithfulness are a thing of the past. I no longer listen to cultural icons whose lives only reflect faithlessness and momentary gratification.I hear a much louder voice, the voice of individuals like Lisa Bevere who speak of truth that is unchanging. Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry is packed full of tools that will help us be the strongest women this world has ever encountered. Also,I am touched by Lisa's vunerability in this book. She is so willing to talk about her past choices in order that others who come after her will not have to walk down that same painful road. And it is helping to reverse the lies that have taken such a destructive toll on my generation.

I tell you, you can't go wrong with the Beveres! Both John and Lisa have evidence of the biblical ministry of Jesus Christ in their work. It is evident from the clear-cut Bible principles that Lisa uses in this book that her heart is for Jesus and His people. The main premise of this book is teaching women to establish a real love relationship with Jesus and to base their goal of purity on the intimacy they have with Jesus. Basically, stay pure because you are in love with Jesus and this is what He both warns and commands us to do. If you wholeheartedly receive Jesus' word on purity, you will have no problem with the message He gives through Lisa in this book

This book was life changing! I am 19 and have been through a lot of what this book is talking about. Lisa Bevere who is an amazing writer has also been through sexual misfortunes, giving away herself too soon, and overcoming the ideal image of a woman. Not only does it give you an in depth look of what the bible has to say about how women should be, it gives you Jesus's perspective on women as his bride. I was amazed and captivated by the stories in this book, it left me wanting to remiain pure for God and my future husband. This book will help mend any brokeness a girl could ever have from being used in any sexual way in her life. This book didnt condem girls for their sexual past, it showed how God wants to help us, and how he is our prince that will redeam us from our past. I cannot say enough about this book. I am 19, and wish every other girl my age could read this. I hope there are mothers out there that will buy this for their 13 year old to 90 year old daughters. This will go in the top 5 books I have ever read. I will def re purchase over and over to give as gifts to friends. Women who have been hurt by, abused by, or given in to sexual ways you must read this it will heal your heart.!

"Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry" as the title suggests is about why girls lose but it's also about how they can win. From my own experience I am sure that I was a hunter of girls looking for the girl that thought sex was love. Sex is NOT love, as the book suggests, however the book deals with a change of heart in order to change your life. I destroyed many girls innocence because they thought that sex was love. "Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry" takes into account how many guys have what seems uncontrollable desires and they WILL say anyhting to get what they want. If lady's new what went on in a man's mind, the things that men NEVER admit to, they would have Lisa's insight on how to protect their younger girls from the men who hunt rather than love. What goes in a man's mind is why so many fathers are protective of their daughter's. I have discovered that the desires of lust are the enemy of true love and this book captures this characteristic of life awesomely well. A person who is open to applying a word to their life will find this book excellent. I hope there are more people with Lisa's phenomenal insight.

I bought this book in hopes it would give me some wisdom to share with my teen-aged boys. WOW, it was healing and I recommend it to any mother with a daughter. I'm sending a copy to my sister for her and her two daughters. I am also getting a copy for our youth leaders at church. God is awesome!