Most people do not plan for a medical, mental or aging crisis for a parent-or themselves, and if such a crisis is not on your calendar, prepare now. None of us know what we don't know, and when a loved one's health and/or mind are failing, this is no time to have a crash-course in learning. *Who do I turn to for advice? *What kind of questions do I ask? *Do I plan a loved one's care for this immediate crisis-or make a plan that includes future needs...