Is It You or Is It Me?: How We Turn Our Emotions Inside Out and Blame Each Other

I considered sending the authors a check, since this book has already been worth a half-dozen therapy sessions, and I'm not even finished. It's written clearly & intelligently. If everybody read this book with the loving care with which it's written, I think the world would be a saner place.

This is one of the best books I have ever read on what is really happening within a relationship between two people. This book gets to the point on how individual's think and how that thinking causes confusion and relationship problems. Many books like this are nice to read and then you close the book and that's it. This one is different. I would recommend this to those who have a pattern of relationship problems or those who know there is a problem in your current relationship, but just can't figure out what the problem is! My fiance is reading this and we're learning a lot about each other! This one is so interesting and easy to read, I couldn't put it down until I was finished. A keeper!