Love is dispensable; companionship is critical.Some words of wisdom that my father imparted to me. I never gave much thought to either. My only desire was to be my father's well-bred heir. A true Southern gentleman who took what he wanted and paved the road to success with the spoils. Hiding behind the curtain of gentility, I perfected my role. Until desire tore it in two and I was left with the tattered remains.