If You Want Closure in Your Relationship Start with Your Legs: A Woman's Guide to Understanding Men

I can see why others might not like this book, but, to me, it was about hearing the truth and then listening to it. So, I overlooked all that other stuff and just read what this author has to say and he's saying this: Stop treating yourself bad. That's what I got from this book and I am so glad I read it. The message can hurt, but keeping up the charade can be more damanging on down the line. Another one with good truths: Man Magnet: How to Be the Best Woman You Can Be in Order to Get the Best Man-A Guide To Dating (Revised Edition).

Ladies, this book is a must read about us from a man's persective. Though the chapters are short, they are to the point. You may have been through a lot of these situations, and once you read this book, you will have a better understanding. I purchased 6 to give to young ladies just starting to acquaint themselves with the game (my 19-year-old daughter included). Get it! Read it! Learn from it! Share it!

Published Saturday, March 29, 2008 2:15 AM Odd title takes odd title title Associated Press LONDON -- Good advice? Maybe. Oddest book title of 2007 -- that's official. If You Want Closure in Your Relationship, Start With Your Legs has won the Diagram Prize for the oddest title of the year, The Bookseller magazine announced Friday. Big Boom, the apparently pseudonymous author, calls it a "self-help book, written by a man for the benefit of women." It's a book, he writes, that is "raw, honest and about you," distilling "the sweat off my back, the wrinkles in my forehead from anger and thinking all the time." The title triumphed in a public vote over runner-up I Was Tortured by the Pygmy Love Queen and the third-place finisher, Cheese Problems Solved. "The winner, If You Want Closure, makes redundant an entire genre of self-help tomes," said Joel Rickett, deputy editor of The Bookseller. "So effective is the title that you don't even need to read the book itself." The title joins a pantheon of past winners, including Weeds in a Changing World (1999), The Big Book of Lesbian Horse Stories (2003), Bombproof Your Horse (2004) and The Stray Shopping Carts of Eastern North America: A Guide to Field Identification (2006).

This is a wonderful book if you are ready to learn where you are going wrong in relationships. For those who feel that they have not gone wrong then it is a good guide to stay on track. Big Boom has definitely "given his heart" to the woman. I will go back and use as reference guide. My daughter is going to read it when she gets older. Thank you Big Boom for telling us the truth.

I have thoroughly enjoyed this entire book. It only took me a couple of days to complete reading it. I found it very informative, funny and filled with emotion and can be enjoyed by women, as well as, men. Again, BIG UPS TO BOOM!!!