If Anybody Asks Me . . .: 1,001 Focused Questions for Educators, Counselors and Therapists

Phenomenal book, great conversation-starter for teens. Used it in group counseling and my kids had a very good time with it.

CONGRATULATIONS to Larry for putting it all into words! I will definetely get the book, but I don't have to read it to know what it says. He was my mentor for many years and will remain my friend for life. If you have kids or work with kids, listen to what he has to say. Funny, I was looking him up on the internet to discover he's written a book. No doubt he bottom lines it into a few simple ideas. The things I learned from working with Larry is all any of us need to know is that we know we are loved and we feel safe. When it comes to setting limits, it is important to bottom line it, but be matter of fact about it. You don't have to yell, engage in arguing, or any of those things that make it worse instead of better. Nor is it "go to your room for 30 minutes because you hit Johnny, but "we treat ourselves and other people with respect. When you can do or say something to Johnny that shows him that respect, you can go about your business." Forget the circumstances surrounding the conflict. Just have them own up to whatever value they treaded upon and make restitution in a way that relates to the problem. Focus on the few basic values. (i.e.respecting property, taking care of our personal responsibilities) Aside from all that, "affect" belonged on the football field where he coached for many years. The way he taught me to think makes a difference in my life still.

This book is perfect for anyone who has kids, works with kids/teens or anyone who interviews people for a living. The book is filled with thought provoking questions that really stretch the imagination and make you think about your own values. I have used it as a resource for questions when interviewing people for new careers and competional panel evaluations. Excellent questions, and the answers will surprise you!