I Walked the Line: My Life with Johnny

I watched a interview with Kathy Cash on YouTube. I was not familiar with her other than her name. Thinking it would be interesting I found it certainly was. Then afterward I watched the documentary produced I believe it was by Kathy's son. Both the interview and the documentary were excellent and Kathy impressed me a lot. I looked for the book here and bought a copy. What a remarkable woman Vivian was. So elegant. Of course I knew who Johnny was and thought he had a unique style of music. I have to say that the book was so well written yet I had a heavy heart for Vivian, she held so much in for so many years and I am glad she finally had a voice to express herself. Many other reviewers covered most of what I would say but I want to say that the end of the book Ann told a few things that I will never forget. She spoke of her dream as well as the dream Kathy had plus Ann's young son's drawing....brings tears to my eyes. I won't say more than that so as not to spoil it for others who will read the book. Well done Ann. Vivian's daughters can certainly be proud how their mom handled herself with dignity and grace. You really feel the emotion all through the book. I am glad I read the book and when I get to heaven I want to meet this lovely lady and have "a coffee" together. She really touched my heart.

Innocent viewers of James Mangold's film "Walk the Line" (2005) could leave it thinking that, somehow, Johnny Cash's first wife Vivian--the mother of Rosanne, Kathy, Cindy, and Tara--was "the other woman" to the man's only real love, June Carter. This book, written with Cash's encouragement before he died, tells another side to the story (and in real life, such stories have many, many sides). The heart of the book--some 247 pages--are Cash's love-letters to his girl friend and fiancée (1951-54), many written while he was serving in the military. A number are reproductions of telegrams, typescripts, and letters in Cash's own hand. The contents are so personal--Cash was infatuated with his lady, head over heels--that to read them feels an intrusion. Vivian brackets these letters with family photographs, her own remembrance of good times and bad, her candid feelings toward June, and her and her former husband's coming to terms with life near its end for them both. This is a book that nearly wasn't written--friend and coauthor Ann Sharpsteen practically had to coax it out of a very private person--but we can be glad that it was. And just in time: Sharpsteen tells us that Vivian died two weeks after completing the manuscript in 2005.

Okay, I realize you may think I'm prejudiced, but I WAS THERE and also lived this story. Even Dad (JOHNNY CASH) and June made it public in one of their last interviews that this story IS TRUE...they admitted to it. This is my MOTHERS story...like it or not, she tells the truth and I applaud her for her courage. Not only did she completely keep her story to herself for almost FORTY years, I was there when Dad gave her the go ahead, and HE asked her to not leave anything out. Her intention was NOT to slam June...it was simply to tell the truth. It happened, take all 3 of my parents off the pedistal and remember they were human beings. Dad lived because he wanted to. God is what got him through the worst times. My parents were married 13 years and had 4 children together. IT wasn't exactly a one night stand! They were together from 1950 to 1966!! I expected some people to have a negative reaction, but some of these reviews are pretty hate filled.. THREE of our 4 parents are gone. Please remember, your words are hurtful for the ones here left behind that grieve for them daily. VERY HURTFUL. If you want to critique the BOOK, that's one thing, just don't critique my Mother who you didn't know at all. She was an amazing and very loving woman that had her heart broken, and loved a MAN for over 50 years! A MAN...MY DAD...not Johnny Cash. He was a HUMAN BEING, Okay? You aren't required to like the book, but show a little kindness in regards to my Mother , please. ~Kathy Cash

In this book, Vivian says something very close to the effect of "He went from my arms to God's arms. Anything that happened in between just wasn't supposed to happen". That about says it all. While I can't - in good conscience - insult June Carter Cash (I happen to love her songs and think she had an adorable public personality), I also can't be one of those lemmings who refuses to face reality and truth. While Johnny and June had a loving and happy marriage, there was a love story and happy marriage BEFORE that one and it's high time that story was told. To that I say: Thank you, Vivian!! 90% of the book does consist of love letters that Johnny wrote to Vivian while in the service in Germany. Those letters paint such a magnificent picture, you don't even miss Vivian's "side" of the correspondence. By turns, Johnny was loving, longing, lonely, angry and apologetic but ALWAYS did his absolute adoration for Vivian come through loud and clear. If he said it once in his letters, he said it - quite literally - a thousand times "I love you" and "You're the only one for me, Vivian". Vivian loved this man and he absolutely adored her. They maintained a steady, loving relationship while enduring a three year separation. They married and produced four wonderful, sweet daughters. Vivian encouraged Johnny in his music, stayed by his side and reveled in his phenomenal success. Vivian was promised love, steadiness and faithfulness. When these promises were not only broken - but painfully shattered - she did the only thing she could do. She gave a divorce to the love of her life for the sake of stability and sanity in her home in which to finish raising her daughters. While it's a sad fact that June Carter was "the other woman" who caused this heartache and a tragic end to a promising love story, it is - in truth - a fact. I applaud Vivian - and Ann Sharpsteen - for taking this painful journey and allowing us all to have a glimpse of the very first love story and marriage of Johnny Cash. Any TRUE fan of Johnny Cash' will appreciate this important labor of love.