I Begin Life All Over

My criteria for a great book are that it is well written, interesting and thought provoking. Lillian Faderman meets all these criteria in I Begin My Life All Over. Faderman takes the reader on journey that is, in many ways, typical of the immigrant experience, especially those into twentieth and twenty-first century America. Through interviews with Hmong immigrants, she discusses the cultural changes that occur when moving from persecution into main stream America. Being the son of immigrants, I can see how the trends that she unearths have played out in my family. It also puts the current struggle of immigrants from Latin America into a more humane and non-political light.

Lillian Faderman, author of I Begin My Life All Over, claims to be telling her readers that the social world is a very harsh and difficult aspect of life, and is not as easy to live with as some may think. The social world can especially be cruel if an individual can not communicate with others due to language differences. When someone is all alone in a new place, with no indication of what to do or not do, where to go or not go, it becomes very intimidating and scary. Imagine being in a country not your own, entirely unfamiliar from language to culture, even the government is different, and are unable to speak to anyone, or know what street lights are and their meaning; this is a little bit of how Hmong immigrants felt when at last in America. Hmong immigrants are who Faderman primarily relates this claim of the social world to. In several places throughout her book, she speaks of her own memories of her family's immigration. Her mother was a Jewish immigrant herself and had many hard times with the changes America held for her and her family. Faderman recalls the trials of language barriers, knowledge of how life in America works such as education, job seeking, and many more issues of the social world that her mother endured. In these ways, the author not only portrays the social world as a harsh and difficult aspect of life for Hmong immigrants, but can relate these difficulties to her very own life, showing how immigrants from different walks of life deal with similar issues as they come to America. The claim of the social world being so harsh and difficult, especially for immigrants, is reasoned by the research of other books about the Hmong culture, as well as the personal stories. Each and every one of the people who shared their personal stories told of how coming to America or even having parents who did, was a struggle, not knowing how streets worked with street lights, how to cross the street, or even how to get around from one place to the next. All of these factors in the social world were different for the Hmong immigrants as well as Faderman's mother's experience as a Jewish immigrant. The cultures are so very different, one does not even know where to begin when in America, a strange land. These few reasons are that which make the claim true. When relating Faderman's claim to those personal stories, including her own memories, as well as the other background information given about Hmong people, these reasons for stating such a claim are relevant. I think that although some data or case study information, if accessible, would have been a great addition to these personal experiences, the reasons to this claim of a harsh and difficult social world were backed up effectively within each person's story. Faderman co-wrote this book with a Hmong immigrant by the name Ghia Xiong, who helped to tell her very own story, and gave other Hmong immigrants the comfort to be interviewed for this book. The majority of this book i

This is an awesome book that tells the true and heart-wrenching stories of fear, desperation, and resilience that so many Hmong people endured as they were forced from their homeland due to the Vietnam War. Many Hmong immigrants that relocated to the U.S. found a "culture shock" awaiting them, as assimilation made it a difficult adjustment to the lifestyle they once lived. This book is a good read and recommended to anyone who is interested in learning about the immigrant experience or ethnic and minority groups in America.

This book is a great way for people to see how Hmong people see their life coming to America, and life before they came here. While reading the book I learned a lot, even though I am Hmong. The writers go into really deep details how living was and also how hard it was to adjust to America. Faderman also talks about how it was to be an immigrant, too. She compares most of the stuff Hmong people went through to her life as a child. This book really gives you an understanding of being Hmong. You'll learn how they lived before they came over to the United States. Then it'll talk about how hard it was to change their lives to live in the U.S. Who thought that someone would explain how Hmong people came here and how they lived? After reading this book, you'll be able to open your mind to other cultures. They did a great job of opening Hmong people to the whole world.

This is an astonishing book. The author, working with a Hmong colleague, collected many moving oral histories. She then wove them together into an astonishing tour-de-force.This book provides a voice to Hmong people, telling their stories in their own words. At the same time, Faderman places the Hmong experience in the larger context of the experience of leaving one's home to come to the United States as an immigrant. Using the particular experiences of her Hmong informants, as well as her own history growing up as the child of an immgrant, she sheds light on the general topic of what it means to be an immigrant in this country.For most US residents, there is immigration somewhere in our histories; this book speaks to how our families were profoundly affected by the dislocation and courage of these immgrants, whether they are ourselves, our parents, or lurking in the more distant past. I can't imagine a better book on this topic.