I Ain't Much Baby But I'm All I've Got

I first read this book in college, about 15 years ago. I noticed right away that I was sending out and receiving love from people. It was amazing and real, and eventually my "abilities" wore off. Then I read it again 9 years ago, and the same thing happened, without saying a word, people smiled more and were kinder, and went out of their way to be nice to me. Because I was real and accepting of myself, and it flowed out. But again it wore off. Now in 2005 I think I have grown enough spiritually to "get it", and I hope permanently this time. But it does take five minutes at time for a lifetime. The lessons are between the lines and you won't even realize how much you've changed until you notice how well-liked you suddenly become, really! This book is a must-have for any seeker of personal growth or spritual truth because as I'm learning, they are exactly the same thing.

He has a real way of connecting with readers, telling it like it is! Great effort and I'm sure Jess helped a lot of people who's lives were confused messes. Very easy read and information. Still applicable to relationships in the 21st century. Jeffrey McAndrewauthor of "Our Brown-Eyed Boy"

This book changed my life ten years ago, when I was struggling with depression and conflict, by giving me back responsibility for the way others react to me. Recently I have had my "tiny flame" blown out and I know this book will renew my hope and give me the strength to get back to loving the world and myself.

A book that help me grow and grow up, if only I could thank the man in person for what few words he shared in such works. Thanks for showing me how to share the love that I have within my soul.

I have referenced and reflected back on this book time and time again. I have lent it to others. It is a great self-esteem builder book and instructs one on how you don't have to be perfect to be perfect. Dr. Lair can really relate with his friendly advice, and his ability to help you figure out why you may feel the way you do. Although the edition is old, the message is unending.