How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You

Between this book and David Gibbons' "Love Signals" you have a very powerful arsenault. After years of dating, I read these two books and began to use the suggestions at work and play. I did better at work and I managed to find a great guy who I have now been married to for over 18 years. The book suggests that you try to determine what "language" the prospective "husband" uses in his life to communicate. Is he audial? Responds to sounds. Visual? Tends to learn by viewing, or is able to think spatially like an architect or engineer? Or is he a touchy, feely guy who learns through feelings and touching or manipulating things like a mechanic. Once you identify this, the book teaches you how to communicate in his language style. In addition, it teaches you how to act in a relationship similar to "The Rules" only this book predated "The Rules" and has more concrete information. Enjoy it, but don't use the techniques lightly, they can be highly manipulative.

The book works. It proviedes the reader with a working plan to develop an intimate relationship with a significant other. I used the plan on some unworthy "test" subjects and found them hard to get rid of. When it came time for me to use it on the man I deemed man of my dreams... it worked! I am now happily married to a great guy. Even though, this is my second marriage and I came with a bunch of kids... he loved me and wanted to have a lifelong committment with me.

There's a lot of truth here. Tracy is talking about something that most of us don't think about.Ever notice that when you are very mutually attracted to another person, your movements seem to be in sync, rapport just seems to "flow"?Ever also notice that you can meet a very nice, wonderful person, but nervous or jerky mannerisms on their part can kill the attraction? They aren't "syncing" with you.After practicing her techniques, I found myself *becoming* more attracted to the other party.Dr. Tracy's principles have helped me recognize my own nervous mannerisms, and also the other's. Her principles of "anchoring" offer a great way to calm down a nervous person so you can really get to know them. And the "love spell" in this case works on YOU.

I read Tracy Cabot's book, How To Make a Man Fall In Love With You, years ago, when I was 15 years younger, and always looking for the "answer" to learning how to bridge the Mars vs Venus gap, though I didn't have a name for the gap back then. Like another reviewer who talks about the three modes from which we communicate and respond, which are visually, auditorially, and kinesthetically, I had studied Neuro Linguistic Programming, among other studies in an attempt to strengthen my communication skills. Fifteen years later, as an adult educator, I often recommend Tracy Cabot's book in my classes on communication, because I believe that it is a simple way to learn this marvelous technique for communicating not only between the two sexes, but between any two human beings. Where else can you find so many wonderful tips on communication in such an inexpensive, easy to read, little package? I just wish that Tracy would put together a wonderful training video on these skills.

WHENEVER I HAVE A FRIEND WITH MAN TROUBLES I ALWAYS RECOMMEND THIS BOOK. ALTHOUGH I TELL THEM THE TITLE IS A LITTLE EMBARRASSING, THE INFO IS PRICELESS! I HAVE USED THE TECHNIQUES ON SOME OF THE MOST COMMITMENT PHOBIC MEN AND WITHIN NO TIME FLAT THEY WERE PROFESSING THEIR LOVE FOR ME. THE INFORMATION IN THIS BOOK WORKS SO WELL THAT IT IS A TRIP TO SEE IT WORKING BEFORE YOUR VERY EYES. I RECOMMEND THAT YOU KEEP IT HANDY, IT IS SO EASY TO TAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP FOR GRANTED ONCE YOU KNOW THAT A MAN IS YOURS. IF YOU KEEP PRACTICING THE TECHNIQUES I BELIEVE THAT YOUR MAN WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER.