How to Love a Black Man

Very good book to read. A woman can get a good glimpse at do's and dont's in relationships. Black men are special and need special attention. [A message to Black women; know your power to influence, positive change, in the lives of Black men but never abuse it. Be patient, and don't expect change over night.]

Even if you already have a wonderful relationship this book can still do wonders. Not only do you gain insight to yourself you also find those little secrets to help you go above and beyond. You can make a mediocre relationship into the dream you have always wanted.

This book is highly recommended for those who are seeking a how to have a fulfilling life with their man. Reading the first two pages and I immediately started to laugh, because what was written was and is so true. This book is not what you think it is about. A list of rules on how to pamper, feed, and love you man. This book is about how you as a woman need to learn how to deal with the type of person you are when seeking a man and learning how to undo some of those things. I am not giving anything away. You have to have an open mind. Because if you're seeking a bashing on black men- then you may just want to look some where else. This is an excellent read. I even bought, How to love a black woman for my husband and we are both reading. A good teaching tool for ALL BLACK WOMEN

"It's a mystery, and at this moment, that's okay." Dr. Elmore teaches that loving a Black Man as a Black Woman requires patience, understanding, kindness, and unselfishness. (1Cor. 13:4) Dr. Elmore's guidance provided answers to questions that every Black Woman wants to know. I recommend this book not only to "the sisters" but to "the brothers" as well.

This book was so straight forward and informative that I wanted to devour it in one reading. But instead I took my time and put Dr. Elmore's practical advice to work. Although I am not presently in a relationship with a Black man, I believe that I will have a better understanding of how to give and get love without compromising myself or my future partner' wants and needs. I gained a tremendous amount of insight into my non-productive relationship patterns and am now on a search for ways "compromise on my practices, without compromising my principles". Thanks Dr. Elmore for such a wonderful book!!!!