How to Be Irresistible to the Opposite Sex: The Art of Dating, Mating, Long Term Relating

I bought this book a few years ago and learned a lot - and yes, was reminded of some of the basics I'd forgotten. My boyfriend bought one and I've benefited from that too! Susan has even done breaking through love barrier coaching for my daughter and reunited her with her teen/young adult children. For the first time, the whole family was together for my granddaughter's wedding. Amazing. That wouldn't have happened without Susan's talent, time and patience. Susan's always open to new ideas and shares other's books if she thinks they're worthwhile to her clients. I've taken her seminars too and have never been pressured to buy anything, and always gotten more value than I expected. Sometimes ideas that seem so simple are the ones that work the best. I like her lists - keeps things simple!

After reading this book I realized that I just wasn't trying in the dating world. I never realized before that I didn't know how to flirt. I was being too cerebral! And I definately wasn't getting any dates. This book will show you some techniques to help break the ice. I had been making the guys do all the work and not flirting at all. What was I thinking?! This book gave me permission to go ahead and flirt. I have also done a retreat with the author. I noticed immediately following that I get more smiles and more looks that I can recall in years. I am a lot more outgoing and friendly now. Try it! You don't know what you don't know! If you suspect that you have forgotten how to flirt or just need some good ideas, buy this book. It's fun, approachable and makes dating fun again. Dating is supposed to be fun!

My friend told me about this book so I looked up the reviews. The one where some guy downs the advice I decided to take on before I bought anything. Specificially this reviewer said...how stupid it was to remind people to remember someone's name when you are flirting with them. Well, I've made that mistake more than once and at least I will admit it. I did make extra effort to remember her name and it paid off. So I decided to use the other techniques the reviewer dunned. Well again, they worked so I decided to buy the book and I was not disappointed and neither is my new girlfriend. 1. The line where you say...Excuse me, is there anyone in your life that would mind if I flirted with you." the reviewer said it was to direct and not gamey enough... Well it worked nearly every time I used it and women got a kick out of it. So I say...hey buddy. Think with your heart! Try it before you decide whether it works or not. If you want to lighten up about love and really fall in love-don't just listen to me. What do I know. Well at least I have someone to love who loves me....so don't listen to me what do I care. 2. I like the lists, they made me laugh at myself and I learned from them at the same time. 3. And who cares if the author promotes some of the other things she does in the book as long as YOU get something out of it. Sheesh...some people! P.S. Okay just so you know I did find one typo in the book. Tsk Tsk

When you haven't been dating in while, you have to do something! This book gave me the courage to go back out there and give relationships another chance. Most of the books out there are negative towards men. I don't hesitate to show this book to women I am seeing. If they don't want to read it, that tells me something. I don't waste time with women who don't want to learn and grow. If they won't read an easy, humorous but insightful book like this, then they probably won't want to deal with other real life issues. Most women are thrilled to find a guy who takes the time to read a relationship book and share it with them. I'm a believer. I don't have a lot of time to read, and this book made it easy for me to read and re-read and get the results. Simply Effective! Whenever my friends complain about their lovelife, I give them a copy of this book. My buddy's house got robbed and they even took his copy of How to be Irresistible! Ladies, if you want a book that us guys will want to read and use...this is the one.

People who want to continue to blame their luck or circumstances will not like this book. If you are ready to take responsibility and create an action plan to find and keep love, read and use the book. While I found it entertainingly funny and to the point, I also found that the more I actually took time to systematically use the info, the more successful the results. I like that you can open it to any page and get something useful. At a recent relationship seminar I found out what John Gray of "Men are from Mars, Women from Venus" thought of this book: He said: From FLIRTING to HEALING LOVE'S WOUNDS, it's an AMAZING book!" That's why I bought it and I am glad that I did. My Personal WARNING: "Only use this book if you want to heal and are willing to GIVE UP YOUR LAME EXCUSES of why love is so difficult." Can't wait to read this author's next books.