Home for Christmas: Return to Promise / Can This be Christmas?

These are some of the few romances I've read where the feelings between the protagonists seem like true, lasting love rather than just infatuation. In "The Forgetful Bride" and "Christmas Angel" in particular, there are the kind of heroes I would like to see in more novels - men with wit and humor, warmth and kindness - not the cold, arrogant type of men one usually finds in romance novels. I've read some bad reviews of "Christmas Angel" because of this, so I must assume that many women like to read about aloof older men who always have the upper hand over the female protagonist, but in all of these stories the characters were truly on an equal footing, and the plots made it clear that they brought out the best qualities in each other.