Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers

This book is a really outstanding source for doctors, counselors, therapists, as well as patients/clients who have experienced difficulties communicating their sexual problems to their health care provider. Moser's unique education (Phd in sexology as well as a MD), vast research experience, and knowledge in sexual minorities make him the most qualified individual in the field to write this book. The text is short and sweet, to the point, informative, and draws upon Moser's experience as a physician specializing in sexual medicine. I felt the dual nature of the book (for providers and patients) was useful because it enables everyone to ponder both aspects of the interaction. His recommendations explain how to take control of your health care situation, including what is necessary and what is not. Providers will find this book useful and aid them in developing nonjudgmental techniques with their patients. The explanation of the nature of health care coverage is also informative. Overall, I highly recommend this book. As a human sexuality counselor/educator I can appreciate Moser's dedication to the field.

of the health care system because of their sexuality. Now, I've never been one to not go to a doctor because of my sexuality -- I just don't like doctors period. But I always get an annual from my Gyn and I'm very upfront with my sexual choices -- I figure I'm paying, she can listen and give me the best information. Others however are not as comfortable and thus they miss those very necessary check ups. Now I don't think that the doctor should be someone's primary source of information about bdsm, but about general and specific health questions, that is their job. Doctor Moser gives two audiences reassurance that to be honest about your sexuality in relationship to doctors is a necessary thing: the lay public or consumers and the health care providers. I'm not sure that the two audiences in one book was the best approach -- I found the "providers" sections a bit dull to read but I think the "providers" can gain insight from the "consumers" section. The overall message of the books is simple: you are ultimately responsible for your well-being, this means getting your physical and emotional health tended to on a regular basis. Trust me, someone with experience in the scene, you are doing yourself a favor by seeing your doctor and you are performing a necessary task if you want to protect and care for your partners. Moser's book will help you overcome your concerns and reclaim your rights as a consumer and a human being.

Several times I have struggled with seeing a doctor about a health-related problem because it might mean I'd have to disclose information about my sexuality. This book tells you how to do so in an informed and calm manner.Charles IMHO is a hero for writing this book. Not only is there information for the patient on dealing with a doctor's concern about your "alternative lifestyle," (ie the section called "For Consumers") and any related health concerns but also a section for Health care workers near the end of the book (the section called "For Practioners").Buy this book both for yourself AND for your doctor!