Writing the memory of my marriage was a painful and torturous process. I met Hu Angang at the Hebei Institute of Mining and Metallurgical Technology in Tangshan. We married in 1983. One year after, I won the full scholarship to study overseas through National Graduate School Admission Test. While I was pursuing my Ph.D. abroad, Angang completed his Ph.D. in China. We had experienced the pain of separation for more than six years. Completing our studies,...