No four-letter F-words were used in the making of this book. However, it was a four-letter F-word that inspired the writing of this book. The first small group I ever led was for a group of teenage guys who were pretty new to church. After months of doing small group together I really thought I was getting through to them. In fact, one of them even volunteered to pray. I was feeling pretty good about myself until he closed out his prayer "F*%$#*#...