Don't Sing Songs to a Heavy Heart: How to Relate to Those Who Are Suffering

This book was just what I was looking for. I rarely know how to respond to those hurting besides just being quiet and listening, but this book was very helpful in giving me other ideas/options about how to respond to those suffering who are so dear to me.

This book is a big help to caregivers (those who offer care for others in need) and for the rest of us who merely want to express our concern without making things worse. We all have friends, coworkers and family members who suffer losses and hardships now and then, so this book is for everyone. When I read it, my brother was going through an unwanted divorce. Prior to reading the book, I dreaded calling him because I didn't know what to say and I was afraid of being uncomfortable, saying the wrong thing, or having that awkward silence on the phone. But after reading Don't Sing Songs to a Heavy Heart, I started calling him every few days and became his strongest source of support. This book gave me questions to ask, ways to listen and more. Don't be the person who avoids your neighbor or friend during their darkest times--get this book and learn simple things that can help another heal.

If you're like me, and have said, I never know what to say to people who are going through grief and suffering, this book if for you. Practical, step-by-step tips on what to do, what to say, and what not to say as you navigate difficult times in the lives of family and friends around you. You'll be a better friend if you read this book and apply it's principles. There will be less awkwardness in conversing with someone going through difficult times. Definitely will keep it handy in my library.