Searching for your dream mate doesn't have to be a nightmare, but it can be if you don't have a plan. Too many people refuse to plan for anything romantic. "It will just happen," or "someday my prince will come" are common expressions from singles, young and old alike, who cling tightly to childish fantasies that true love will just float down from the heavens. With sexual disease, divorce, and serial dating on the rise, it's obvious that what singles...