When it comes to picking the right career, shoes or wine, we demand choices. So why is it that we don't think twice about giving away the most precious gift a single woman has to give monogamy, and all that it implies, to a man who has not yet shown himself to be deserving of it? If you're putting the wants and needs of a man you hardly know before your own because you think or hope he's "the one;" if dating has become an agony of second-guessing...