Coping with Premature Ejaculation: How to Overcome PE, Please Your Partner, & Have Great Sex

The most amazing thing about this book is it's approach to the matter of premature ejaculation. It gives you an answer for all your questions. It means that you'll get to know which type of PE you have and how you have obtained it. Then it gives you the procedure how to cure it. This is particulary good in the way that you know which circumstences caused your PE, which aspects of your life you have to concentrate on and which to change. When you know these facts you'll get more comfortable and self-confident because it gives you the impression that PE is something that is cureable. I have already read several books on this matter. Like the book by Barbara Keesling, then the 'Multi-Orgasmic Man', 'Multi-orgasmic couple', books by Margot Anand and her DVD, 'Tantra' by Andre Lysebeth, 'Tantra & Tao' by Gilly Smith, 'A Chakra & Kundalini Workbook' by Jonn Mummford and another book about Kundalini which I don't remember the author's name. These Tantra books are nice and they bring something new to your thinking about sex and relationship, but the techniques won't help unless you believe absolutely in energy and it's flow. For some it's not so easy to imagine. Another thing is the use of the Pubococcygeal Muscle described in almost all of these books including this one. In the Tantric books you are instructed how it is important to squeeze it before the point of no return and how to imagine the flow of the energy and the importance of pumping it to your head and who knows where else. 'Coping with Premature Ejaculation' teaches you how to relax it and your whole body(however, this depends on the type of PE you have) which is far more important because eventually you'll get relaxed during intercourse being completely aware of your feelings and your partner what you would not achieve with the Tantric books (at least, I wasn't able to) because you would be distracted by your imagination. I can only recommend you this books. It works for me, although I haven't finished reading it, and as for now I do the individual exercises, but I have already noticed progress and that just after few weeks of reading. I haven't noticed such change even after I have completely read the Tantric books mentioned above.

I am a sex therapist and sex educator, teaching at a large graduate school in the midwest. I use this book as a required text in my 'Treatment Strategies for Sexual Dysfunction' class. It is not only an excellent self-help book, it teaches clinicians how to think about and treat sexual difficulties. Barry McCarthy and Michael Metz are simply the best at what they do. I recommend this book to clients, students, and colleagues. Bravo to two excellent sex therapists!

To start with I do have PE. I think this is a most outstanding book. It approaches the problem in very thorough and easy to understand way. I have read many books and tried everything on the market - desensitizers, herbal pills, exercises you name it I have tried it. Nothing worked. The book allowed me to approach the problem very methodically and I am practically PE free now. It shows you that this is a problem which is only a matter of management and right approach to sex. Also I have no permanent partner so it works for singles too. I used to cum in about 2 minutes although sometimes I could go for 10 or 15 but no rule for it. Now I can easily have 15 minutes pre-intercourse and at least 15 minutes of intercourse. I would also suggest that you use some of the hypnosis tools on the market. They work great in conjunction with the book as they allow you to relax which is crucial for success. Good luck to anybody who is in need of such a book. This is the one :-))

Metz and McCarthy have done the research based on their work with troubled clients. And they know how to offer step-by-step advice on successful coping with the problem. Best of all, they take a complex issue and give people permission to explore and experiment. They see healthy sex as important, and most especially, fun. I hope many people will find this important resource so they can end their suffering and find the joy of sexual enrichment.

Drs. Metz and Mccarthy have written the book that needed to be written. Finally, here is an easy to read book for both professionals and the general public which addresses a common sexual complaint that troubles so many men and their partners. Coping with Premature Ejaculation reaches new ground in the understanding and treatment of PE. The book is up to date, comprehensive, and easy to follow. It will remain a valuable resource for the future of comprehensive treatment for sexual difficulties.