Can This Child Be Saved?: Solutions for Adoptive and Foster Families

I observed Dr. Cline work with abused children in a treatment center I used to work in. He works magic with children -I am in total awe of him and his style.

This book can be purchased from the publisher for $24.95. It is put out through the Love and Logic Institute.

For anyone thinking about adopting an older child, this book is a must read but put it LAST on your list. If I had read it first, I probably would have dropped the idea altogether. It is full of frightenning examples of how adopting an older child can lead you and your family down a path to ruin. It does give techniques to deal with and hopefully change some of the disturbing behaviors you may encounter. Most important, it tells you what issues a child has that may lead him to these behaviors.It will arm you with knowledge needed so when you're given a referral, you'll have a much better chance of choosing a child who will grow and thrive in your family instead of tear it apart. There are so many kids waiting for adoption that CANNOT be saved no matter how you try. You owe it to yourself and your family to read this book. It can help you make the right choice that could literally save your lives.

This book is an excellent resource for both parents and direct care-givers. Although a lot of space is given to adoption and foster care concerns, it is helpful for anyone dealing with reactive attachment disorder or children who are not adopted but have attachment issues. Ann Kelley, LCSW, Tulsa Boys Home.

Here is a book that shows some of the difficult sides of adoption, and yet offers MUCH hope for those who love and parent them. It is honest, and thoughtfully written, with practical advice and guidance.