Build Your Own Life: A Self-Help Guide for Individuals with Asperger's Syndrome

This book is very helpful, its written by a person with A.S. for people with A.S. Instead of going into all kinds of psychoanilization mumbo jumbo like many books written by shrinks, it just gives practical advice. Bassically instead of focusing on the problem it focuses on the solution. It refers to the way people with A.S. think and process information as a 'diffibility' rather then a 'dissability.' Because if a person goes around thinking, 'I have a dissability,' how is that helpful? Terming it as a 'diffibility,' a person with A.S. having different ways of thinking, socializing, and processing information is more in line with the 'Law of Attraction.' The whole purpose that the book highlights is to tailor your 'diffibility' properly when choosing a career and going about performing your career. My career is law. For law school I must read and study for long periods of time which I find very relaxing and rewarding. By creating the right study environment I can work with my 'diffability' and excel. Great book, only a 3rd through so far but I really like it. Another good book for people with A.S. who have psychic inclinations is 'The Secrete,' available on book, CD, and DVD.

I have found much of the advice in this book useful, if I remove it completely from the context of the metaphor that occurs throughout the book. I didn't understand why a metaphor like this would be made the main theme of a book for autistic people, given that many of us have trouble with metaphors. It took several rereadings to get anything beyond confused, especially given that there were a lot of unfamiliar words and phrases like "monotropic" and "closed pictures".However, once I had resolved to ignore all reference to houses, buildings, weedkiller, and similar metaphors, I found the information in the book more useful than I have found elsewhere in terms of things written for autistic people. This is probably because it explains not only what to do, but how and why to do it. It also, unlike many books, emphasizes acceptance of being different as the *foundation* of building a proper life for oneself as an autistic person. The sections on dealing with friendships were some of the most useful to me. I hope that there will someday be an easier-to-read book for autistic people that contains more information. I have read other books intended for autistic people, though, including a different one by an autistic person, and _Build Your Own Life_ has had at the heart of it the most useful information.