Adoption Reunions

As an adult adoptee who is in the throes of a reunion, this book was a wonderful addition to my library. It was sent to me from my birth mother, and it has opened my eyes to what she (and my adoptive parents) may be going through at this juncture in our relationships. The author, an adoptee, shares what she went through before, during and after her own reunion with candor and helpful hints (even listing them at the end of each chapter). She is also involved in organizations that allow her to talk with other members of the triad, who share their stories about reunions, reliquishments and adoptions. It is a very specific book, as well. It reads very much like a handbook (with specific organizations to join, specific agencies, etc.) for a reunion. What I found particularly helpful about the book was the middle several chapters in which she divides the reunion--from backstage through "You're On" through Post Reunion. It is also appealing for all three parts of the adoption, as she takes the time to discuss the issues that anyone any place on the triad may be concerned about, what they may feeling, or how they may be acting. The first few chapters were either too general (history) or too specific (about certain agencies that do not relate to all adoptions), but overall it was a wonderful, insightful book about the reunion process.