Acceptance: A Legendary Guidance Counselor Helps Seven Kids Find the Right Colleges---And Find Themselves

A moving series of stories focused on the perspective of a very dedicated counselor who understands that finding the right college and discovering yourself is the most important thing to focus on in this extremely stressful time. I think this should be must reading for all college bound high school seniors and their parents.

What a guidance counselor! With a first child heading off (hopefully) in another two years, this book gave me insight into what admissions directors look for, how stressful the process is for kids, and what I - as a parent - should NOT do. This book is a page-turner!

I am beginning the college search with my second child. Having survived it once, I wish that I had had this book 2 years ago! This is an excellent source of information and advice presented in an informal, easy to read manner. It should be mandatory reading for all Juniors, Seniors and their parents!

This is an eye-opening recounting of the college hunt of a diverse group of seniors at Oyster Bay High School, and how the dreams of the kids meet the reality of the admissions process. The key is the incredible work and talent of their counselor, Gwyeth Smith, Jr., a real joy to watch in action. Mr. Marcus gives the type of moving, accurate portrayal that can only come from "living with" the participants and feeling what they felt. Their stories are told so well that you cannot help but root for the kids as the decisions come in. Apart from a wonderful, realistic story, the book really gets it right when it focuses on what should be the message of parents and counselors everywhere. The real accomplishment in getting into college comes from finding the right fit for the student. It's not just about prestige or academic reputation or exclusivity. It takes someone who cares, someone who takes time to know the students in ways that test scores and class rank cannot. Where will they thrive as young adults beginning their journey? Parents, read this book! If you aren't getting this kind of approach from your counselor, speak up. Students, read this book! It's not about the "best" school you can get into or where your friends are going, it's about learning what matters to you. May you find a counselor as interested in your life as Mr. Smith is with his students. It matters, but what matters most is what you put into this stage of your life.

Overall, a very good book on college admissions. (Oyster Bay HS, North Shore Long Island. Senior Class size: a bit over 100) Strengths: The author embedded himself in the school. The author's focus goes beyond the very top students and includes above-average to average students (compare: Fat Envelope frenzy). The guidance counselor is indeed quite special, and is that rare public school counselor who knows what he is doing. (Compare him with the long-time counselor at the Collegiate School profiled in the NYT). The author acknowledges Jacques Steinberg's book Gatekeepers, and check out the blue cover. Writing is smooth. Well worth $17. Weakness: Did not care for the limp font. What was Penguin production dept thinking?