A Girlfriends Gift: Reflections on the Extraordinary Bonds of Friendship

I once read an article by a woman who declared that real friendships can only be developed in one's youth. What a sad thought! And so untrue. I made my bestfriend after the age of 30, and I'll keep making new friends as long as I live. I think if you enjoy people, there will always be opportunities for more friends. I bought a copy of this gift book for my best friend because I love her so much, and I also love words and books. It is only because she is my best friend, that I am willing to give it up. This lovely, thought-provoking volume hallmarks the friendships that women experience. It enhances one of the values of being a woman beautifully: the closeness we feel to our women friends. Is there anything else like it? Being silly, listening, encouraging, empathazing, sharing thoughts that would abhor men. It makes you really glad to know that so many of us just love being inside the skin of a woman! This little gem shares quotes from unidentified women about their friends. Here is a sampling: "The more we let our girlfriends know how much they are valued, the stronger our friendships grow." "The bond that we forged so many years ago is now unbreakable." "Every healthy, loving relationship between two people requires that both individuals be able to tolerate the differences between them." "A true friendship is in trouble when you pick and choose what you reveal." "All we may need is a friend to share her strength , and we can become clear-headed again." "We share our vulnerabilities with each other and come away stronger." "Regardless of culture or time or distance, women bond together through laughter, dares, and crazy plans." There, now that I've saved some of my favorite quotes, perhaps I can give this volume up to my friend, Cheryl.